
I'm a queer, non-monogamous neurodivergent Nuyorican (Puerto Rican New Yorker) Jewish pleasure activist (a term popularized by adrienne maree brown) who believes that sexual wellness and sexual liberation involve our WHOLE selves. I center
♦︎ Identity, values, and social positioning work
♦︎ Playful exploration
♦︎ Intimacy with self and others
I am here to support you in finding pleasurable, joyful, embodied experiences with self and sex through intentional practices geared towards your specific needs because sexual wellness and pleasure are for anyone who seeks them.
♦︎ become more in tune with your body and its multiple pleasures
♦︎ set and respect boundaries, with yourself and others, to feel more safe and confident while exploring new experiences (deeper intimacy, kink, non-monogamy/polyamory)
♦︎ identify how your identities & life experiences impact your sexual well-being and lean into your personal goals
♦︎ know what you want AND how to share that with partners
♦︎ know that you are worthy and deserving of pleasure
♦︎ break patterns that are no longer serving you

For one-on-one, couples, or small group support with goals related to identity, intimacy, relationships, or sex.
For those seeking support in developing or reviewing curriculum, syllabi, workshops, or programs.
For organizations, companies, and universities, I offer signature workshops, keynotes, and program development.


Your narratives session changed my life.
...Learning from you and going through your workshop helped reinvent how I felt about myself, what I deserved, and my goals in my love life. The insights that I gleaned as a result of that process helped me get out of a bad relationship, open my heart and my mind to futures that I really want, and helped put me on a path toward self-acceptance and love.
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I feel happier, my spirit feels healthier, and I feel like I have a better sense of who I am as a result.
- Emma, 25


As someone that comes from a culture that hardly ever addresses the topic of sex, this workshop was extremely informative. It allowed me to question and reflect on my own identity, needs, and wants from myself and the people around me without feeling like I was engaging in something that would be described as "taboo".
Thanks, Yael for this workshop!
- Reshma, 24, gender nonconforming
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Spanish version of the book:
Guía Introductoria A Una Sexualidad Positiva: Teoría, Práctica Y Consejos. Tektime. Feb 2020.
Are you looking to find sexually or romantically compatible partners? Do you ever feel unsure about making a move or how to express new things you want to try? Do you wish you knew more ways to connect with yourself or your partner? Yael uses stories from her own life, as well as those from guest contributors, to illustrate methods and concepts for living a sex-positive, and sexually fulfilling, life.
Part I of the intro-guide helps you develop self-awareness through an exploration of sexual identities and preferences. This awareness is good for personal development as well as to prepare you for finding compatible sexual and romantic matches while avoiding those that could lead to negative experiences.Part II concentrates on communication and consent: how to develop the tools necessary to voice your desires and boundaries while respecting those of others.Lastly, Part III provides a brief overview of ‘need to know’ material as well as recommendations for exploration and discovery.
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Dr. Yael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez is a coach, educator, international speaker, & researcher in the fields of sex, relationships, intimacy, and identity. She is a certified Erosomatic Touch Practitioner, Authentic Consent Facilitator, Sex Doula, and Somatic Sex Coach, the author of An Introguide to a Sex Positive You, a Scholars of Sexology 2023 Fellow with the Kinsey Institute, and has a Ph.D. in Health Behavior from IU Bloomington School of Public Health.
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